Hi, guys!!

OMG!! I have not update since last month!!
I experienced many things last week, but if I write all of them it'll be too long and boring, so I gonna select 1 thing!!
It is about one interesting discussion in my class. Can u guess what we discuss?? hehe
As you can read in title, we talked about what " how are you?" is real meaning.
In this case, which person should say first?? Man?? Woman?? I think man should do first. haha

Have you ever been asked " How are you?" by stranger, especially American?
It really do happens in America, because I experienced!!
And, It was my first surprise because Japanese people, we don't speak to strangers without constraint. But, in America, people speak to me with saying " How are you?".
During waiting a bus, in campus, in cafeteria, in airport....... It happens everywhere!!
Although I was scared at first, I became to like their asking " how are you?" culture.
But!! " How are you?", " How are you doing?",and "How's it going?" , those questions can easier to respond for me, because all I need to say just " Good!".
" What's up?" was really tricky, because I did not know how to answer.....

When I went to shopping mall with my friend and we met a really handsome American boy who is in our same class. And then, he said " What's up?" to me.......
I really did not have any idea to respond, so I just smiled to him...... So sad!!
I really really regaled not to know the answer phrase, because it was good chance to talk with handsome American guy!! haha
I think " How are you?" is the good and convenient phrase to start talking with strangers.
Comparing with Japanese, I think there is no phrase as " How are you?".
Maybe "元気ですか?" has the same meaning, but it is not casual.
English is sometime useful, but sometime really difficult.
1 件のコメント:
In America 'How are you' can mean two things. Most of the time, if someone says 'how are you' or 'what's up', it is their way of saying 'hi'; it does not mean they 'really' care how you are doing.
i know that may sound cold or cruel, but it's not really. in japan, do you care how a total stranger is doing? even if you care for them as a fellow human being, you don't really know them...
but, if a friend knows something has been bothering, and they say 'how are you?', sometimes they really mean it.
sono ue...
'what's up' ha totemo responses ga aru. tatoeba: 'Nothing much' to ittemo ii; if things have been rough, but you are still positive, 'hanging in there' to ittemo.
'what's going on?' is also a way to say hello, but mostly to close friends.
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